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What’s Up You Handsome Savage?

If you’re going through a breakup, wondering how the hell things went so wrong…

This program is going to change your life. 

Because if you’re anything like most of the men I work with? 

Chances are, you’re trying to get closure from your ex.

  • Sending her 3,000 word texts begging her to tell you why she really left and hoping maybe this time she’ll reply with something that makes sense –– or just reply at all.
  • Replaying conversations and hunting for clues about what you did wrong (Was it the toilet seat you left up? The bill you forgot to pay? That 2 terabyte collection of p*rn she found?)
  • Running through 100 different “what if’s” and “I should have’s” until 2AM night after night after night.

And the thing is?

You need answers.

Because understanding what went wrong in this relationship is the only way to make sure you don’t repeat the same mistakes in the next relationship.

But here’s the brutal truth:

No matter how long you were together or why she said she left:

It’s Impossible to Get Closure from Your Ex

Because even if she gives you a play by play breakdown of everything you did wrong in the relationship…

…She still can’t tell you why you did it.

  • She can tell you, “You were too clingy.” But she can’t explain WHY you kept clinging even when you knew it was pushing her away.
  • She can say, “You were emotionally unavailable.” But she can’t show you the subconscious conditioning that caused you to shut down and suppress your feelings.
  • She can say, “You stopped showing up as the man I fell in love with.” But she can’t tell you why you lost yourself in the relationship (or what you need to do to get it back).

And if SHE was a bat sh*t crazy mess?

Well…

There’s no way she can help you understand why you keep attracting women who are covered in more red flags than a Communist parade.

But here’s the good news:

There are psychological principles and neuroscience based frameworks that can.

The problem is no one ever shared them with you.

Hey, my name is

Austin Gillis.

And I never expected to be writing this letter.

I’m not a guru, I’m not a therapist, and I’m not some red-pill prophet here to tell you to “Buy a Bugatti and bang 10 models.”

I’m just a guy who sucked at relationships……

...And figured out how to suck less.

For years, I was where you are right now.

Going through breakup after breakup.

Losing women I loved––often to other guys––when only weeks before they’d told me I was the “man of their dreams.”

For the longest time, I thought that I was the problem.

  • That I wasn’t attractive enough
  • That I just wasn’t “good” with women
  • That I didn’t have what “those guys” had

But then?

I landed a role as the Editor-in-Chief for one of the top men’s personal development blogs.

And as part of that job…

My boss sent me down the rabbit holes of psychology and human behavior: 

  • I read hundreds of books on relationships, attraction, and human behavior.
  • Listened to hundreds of hours of expert interviews with top psychologists, researchers, and counselors.
  • Worked 1-on-1 with best-selling authors, therapists, and researchers studying why people do what they do

And what I learned blew my mind.

Because I learned that there are fundamental patterns in human behavior…


That apply regardless of age, gender, religion, or any other factor.

  • Patterns that drive attraction and patterns that kill it.
  • Patterns that cause conflict and patterns that prevent it.
  • Patterns that create intimacy and patterns that destroy it.

And I realized that no matter how different my relationships looked from the outside, there were 12 fundamental “Attraction Patterns” I ignored that caused all of them to end.

And once I learned how to use them?

Not only was I able to “Close the loop” on my breakups.

And finally make sense of WHY the rejections and breakups kept happening.

But I was able to apply these insights to transform the way I showed up to future relationships.

  • I went from chronic rejection to consistently dating women “out of my league”
  • I put an end to the “nice guy” and people pleasing behaviors
  • I went from begging my exes to take me back to having them reach out to me asking for a second chance.

Best of all?

I managed to attract and marry the woman of my dreams––and nearly a decade later?  

We’re still going strong.

But let’s be real––you’re not interested in my story.

You want to know how this can help you.

So here’s the deal.

If you’re going through a breakup and you want want to:

  • Understand the fundamentals of human behavior to get crystal clear clarity on why she left (or why you keep attracting the wrong women).
  • Identify and break free from toxic patterns in your relationships so you can stop repeating the same god**mn mistakes over and over and over again.
  • Understand how your own subconscious conditioning and “developmental models” keep you stuck in self sabotage.
  • Move into your next relationship with a deeper sense of confidence because you know the mistakes to avoid and what to do differently.

This program can help.

Over the past four years, I’ve shared these frameworks with more than 10,000 students here at ManEvolved.

And helped them get the closure they needed to move on with their life and break free from the cycle of failed relationships.

Guys like our student Doug who used this strategy to get over a toxic ex and start dating a gorgeous PhD psychologist in just a few months––I sh*t you not.

Or our student Alex who was able to get back with his ex and start fresh from a healthier place.

And those are just a few of our many success stories:

The frameworks in this program have helped guys from all walks of life get closure after their breakup…

… And get the clarity they needed to move forward, find someone new, or even win her back.

From 20 somethings who were struggling to keep women interested for more than a few months.

To guys in their 50’s who got hit with a blindsiding divorce after 20 years of marriage.  

And everyone in between.

What our students have to say about our programs

Ben Y
Ben was struggling with deep insecurity and depression after multiple painful rejections.

Chris Pegman
He described himself as a lifelong "Nice Guy" who struggled to set boundaries or get his needs met.

Nate H
Nate was stuck in the same place for years, repeating old habits with no progress.

Mark
Mark felt lost after his marriage ended, struggling through recovery and searching for guidance and support.

BF

Brendon Francis

Enlightening and profound. That fire is in there. Harness it. An excellent framework for positive change.

JD

Jonathan Daniels

so much truth in this module, it is crazy i have survived this long.

SM

Simon Austin Macaspac

I just took 7 pages of notes from just this one video including the questions and answering them to the best I can with honesty and clarity. I never knew how much I was wrong and what true masculinity should be. I am so on board and can't wait. Just imagine how many notes I took from day one and how much even more in the other days coming!

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Andres Suarez

Really enjoying this program so far, I find myself listening to the videos over and over at work to really understand, it also helps me keep calm. It would be awesome if the recommended resources had a hyperlink attached to it. But everything else is great so far, truly grateful I found man evolved!

THE CLOSURE FORMULA

Your Roadmap for Understanding Why She Left, 
How to Rebuild Your Confidence, and How to Break the Failed Relationship Cycle for Good

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Here’s a sneak peek of what’s inside when you join: 


Detailed video training & powerful exercises to help you use the 12 “Attraction Patterns” to make sure you never have to go through this pain again.  

Module 1: The Truth About Breakups (Frameworks 1 - 5)

Module 2: Decoding Human Behavior

Module 3: The Masculine and Feminine Dynamic

Module 4: The Path Forward

Plus When You Enroll You’ll Get 
3 ADDITIONAL BONUSES (Valued at $298)

Bonus 1:

The Implementation Workbook

Bonus 2:

The Integrated Masculinity Blueprint with Jordan Gray (Interview)

Bonus 3:

The Closure Formula Community (NEW!)

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🔥 Module 1:

The Truth About Breakups
(Frameworks 1 - 5) 

Why It Ended (Even If You Thought Everything Was Fine)

This isn’t your therapist’s half-assed “just focus on yourself” advice. This is where we pull the curtain back and show you what was really going on in your relationship — and why the breakup probably had nothing to do with the last fight you had.

Because the problem is most guys only focus on what happened inside the relationship. And they completely ignore what was happening inside of themselves.

That’s like trying to fix a broken pipe by mopping the floor.

We go deeper — unpacking your emotional conditioning, the patterns you learned from childhood, and the unconscious “fantasy bonds” that keep you stuck in dead-end relationships.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I keep ending up in the same type of relationship?” or “Why do I keep sabotaging things with the women I love?” — this module will finally give you a clear, honest answer… and a way out.

Inside this module, you’ll:

  • Discover the two Breakup Positions (Pattern #1) and finally understand why you felt so powerless during the split
  • Spot the 5 Breakup Archetypes (Pattern #3) and see which unconscious role you’ve been playing on repeat
  • Break free from the Fantasy Bond (Pattern #5) — the hidden illusion that made her feel like “the one” even when she wasn’t
  • Shift from blaming yourself to understanding yourself — so you can actually change what needs changing

🧠 Module 2:

Decoding Human Behavior

Understand Her, Understand Yourself — And Finally Stop Repeating the Same Patterns

What if I told you your breakup didn’t happen because she stopped loving you… but because her “primal needs” stopped getting met? (and no, I’m not talking about what happened in the bedroom). 

In this module, you’ll learn the psychology of attraction, disconnection, and emotional fulfillment — so you can finally make sense of why things felt so good at the beginning… and why they fell apart.

You’ll discover the two driving forces behind every human decision, the six core needs we MUST meet for a relationship to last, and how disconnected “neuro-associations” cause relationships to break down––even when you love each other. 

  • Discover the Two Core Drivers (Pattern #6) behind every decision you and your partner make — from why you first fell in love to why it fell apart
  • Learn how your childhood shaped your emotional blueprint — and how it’s likely attracting the exact women who activate your deepest insecurities
  • Master the Six Human Needs (Pattern #7) and how they determine whether a relationship thrives, stagnates, or explodes
  • Pinpoint the Pain-Pleasure Patterns (Pattern #8) that makes relationships feel safe at first… but unbearable over time

Once you understand these hidden dynamics, everything starts to make sense.

You’ll stop blaming yourself, stop blaming her, and start seeing the actual forces at play underneath the surface.

This is like getting the relationship owner's manual you should’ve received in school — but never did.

⚔️ Module 3:

The Masculine & 
Feminine Dynamic

Why You Triggered Her… Why She Shut Down… And How to Never Make That Mistake Again

Ever feel like you were doing everything right, but somehow she still pulled away?

Inside this module, we break down the invisible dance between the masculine and feminine — and how that dynamic either creates deep passion and polarity… or slowly kills attraction until she walks away and says, “I just need space.”

  • Understand the Polarity Collapse Pattern (Pattern #9) and how “being the nice guy” actually made her lose attraction
  • Learn the three emotional triggers (Pattern #10) that quietly destroy feminine trust and make her feel unsafe to open up
  • Discover The Four Killers of intimacy (Pattern #11) — the four behaviors that slowly erode love and intimacy in almost every failed relationship

You’ll learn how to recognize her emotional triggers and your own unconscious reactions. You’ll discover the four patterns that predict the downfall of a relationship with scary accuracy (yes, even yours). And you’ll finally understand why small moments — the ones you thought didn’t matter — actually shaped the entire trajectory of the breakup.

Whether you were too reactive, too controlling, or too nice for your own good… this module will give you the insight to see it — and the tools to never repeat it again.

🧠 Module 4:

The Path Forward

Let Go of the Past. Reclaim Your Power. Close the Loop.

This is where it all comes together.

By the time you reach this module, you’ll already have the clarity, the understanding, and the insight you’ve been missing. But closure isn’t just about understanding what happened. It’s about putting it to rest.

Here, you’ll complete a powerful final ritual — The Three Letters — designed to help you fully release your ex, rewrite your story, and finally stop carrying the emotional weight that’s been dragging you down.

  • Release stored pain from your nervous system
  • Rewire the emotional loops keeping you stuck
  • Reclaim your power from a relationship that no longer serves you

It’s not woo-woo. It’s not some surface-level journaling prompt. This is a research-backed process that signals to your nervous system that it’s safe to move on… for real this time.

Because when you close the loop with your past, you stop repeating it in your future.

And that’s what The Closure Formula is all about.

Plus When You Enroll You’ll Get

3 ADDITIONAL BONUSES

(Valued at $298)

Bonus 1:

The Implementation Workbook

Practical exercises to implement the program at a deeper level

Lesson Summaries for faster implementation

Bonus 2:

The Integrated Masculinity Blueprint with Jordan Gray (Interview)

The core “masculine traits” women are drawn to (and how to develop them) 

How to escape from the attraction-killing “Nice Guy Trap”

Bonus 3:

The Closure Formula 
Community (NEW!)

Private community of other men going through the same experience 

Get support in your journey and feedback from other men to accelerate your progress

If you’re ready to get the closure you need to move forward and rebuild your confidence, let’s get started!

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That’s why your investment is protected by our 
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What Our Students Say About ManEvolved

“One small step changed my life - take action now, and it can change yours too..”

“The unbreakable program transformed my life after divorce, providing powerful support, growth and one of my best investment ever.”

KG

Kendricks Gladney

This is a great lesson, so far so good, this is really helping me to get my mind off my ex, and also its allowing me the opportunity to start the process of healing in the right direction, by seeing the role I played as well as the role she played in our relationship that landed us here.

JN

Jared Niver

So much Clarity. I had the answers in my face, and was to scared or lazy, and comfortable to act. I was being told these exact things, I already had the blueprint in my face. I have nothing to lose now, and am actually thinking of me again.

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Hey man - I've been there very recently. There is a program I signed up for, it's not too costly but holy fuck has it helped me figure some serious shit out. Google "unbreakable experience" by Man Evolved. I think it's like $40 or something and it WILL help you. It's helped me immensely. I wish you all the best!

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Four months later: No
thoughts of the recovering drug addict narcissist and on to dating a gorgeous CEO and PhD psychologist.
Sounds almost like advertising bs, but it isn't.

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r/BreakUps

Better today - UnbreakableHi,

Hi, Went through a breakup last Sunday and it was terrible. Discovered the unbreakable experience man evolved yesterday. And just wanted to say it has been amazing. I quickly watched 10 videos between yesterday and today. With a few that I rewatch to make the concept stick. Finally understood why my relationship broke down.. the breakup is much easier to digest now.

Just wanted to share for other men, just in case they are interested.

I can answer any questions to the best of my knowledge. Though, personally, i'm not out of the woods yet...

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Alex Salvi

I'm actually dating her again from a much healthier she's just another girl perspective.
Ps.

This program is pure Gold. Not because she came back... But because I found myself through it.

BC

Blair Chapman

awesome information .. he covers so much it is like he was seeing inside my head ..:)

Where Will You Be in 30-Days?

Here at ManEvolved, we don’t use fake timers or try to sell you on some b.s. about  how we have “limited spots available” (for a digital course lol).

Instead, I believe in this radical concept called “telling the truth.”

So instead of the typical marketing nonsense, I’ll just ask you a simple question:

Do you still want to be stuck in the pain you’re experiencing right now in 30-days? 

  • Still overthinking every text and lying awake at night repeating every mistake and messy conversation in your head?
  • Still “powering through” and doing your best just to make it through the day (only to break down as soon as you come home from work)?
  • Still struggling to make sense of what happened and get the answers you need? 

Because the truth is—if you don’t deal with the root cause of this breakup now…

You’re going to repeat the same mistakes again in the future. 

If you don’t take different actions, you won’t get different results. It’s that simple.
 
So the real question isn’t “Should I buy this?”

(Because the absolute worst case scenario is that you complete the program, decide it isn’t for you, and get 100% of your money back).

The real question is:

How much longer are you willing to feel this stuck?

My hope is that your answer is, “Not another f*cking minute.” 

And if that’s the case, then it’s time to take the leap and get moving in a new direction.

(BTW, if you’re still on the fence, just scroll down to check out a free preview of the course) 

If you’re ready to get the closure you need to move forward and rebuild your confidence, let’s get started!

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~ Howard Thurman

The world needs strong men now more than ever. And as men, we need each other to get strong. That’s why we donate 2% of all profits to Movember—a non-profit committed to supporting men who are struggling. 

You can learn more about their work here:

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Any Questions? Here Are a Few of the Most Common

I know that some of you were probably in a GOOD relationship.

You f*cked up (and you know it).

And now?

You don’t want to “move on” or “get over her.”

You want to WIN HER BACK.

But here’s the thing…

The only way to WIN her back is to first understand WHY she really left.

Most guys try to win their ex back with begging, guilt trips, or b.s. “mind game” they learned from some YouTube pick up artist.

But here’s the problem:

If you win her back without SOLVING the core problems that pushed her away?

You’re just going to end up in the same spot you’re in right now.

So before you try to get her back (or even move on with someone new)

The FIRST step is getting clarity on what really went wrong and what you need to do to move forward.

So with that in mind, the answer is: Yes and no.

The Closure Formula isn’t a “get your ex back” program.

However, if you’re set on getting back together, the tools and frameworks you learn will give you the best chance of winning her back and keeping her back long term.

Even though the lessons and frameworks inside of The Closure Formula are based on the fundamentals of psychology and human behavior––and will help any man who wants to improve himself and his relationships.

The program is specifically designed for men who feel stuck after a breakup or divorce and want clarity, closure, and a path forward.

This is for you if:

  • You’re replaying the breakup in your head and struggling to understand what went wrong.
  • You feel blindsided and want real answers—not just generic advice to "move on."
  • You keep running into the same relationship patterns and want to break the cycle for good.
  • You want to regain your confidence, rebuild your self-worth, and walk into your next relationship as a stronger, more grounded man.

If any of that sounds familiar, this program will help.

This is NOT for you if:

  • You’re hoping for a quick fix without any real reflection or effort.
  • You’re looking for a silver bullet to trick your ex into getting back together.
  • You think your ex is 100% the problem and your sh*t don’t stink.
  • You’re unwilling to challenge your own beliefs and patterns.

If this is you, please leave this page now. 

Because I can’t help you.

You can complete The Closure Formula in just a few hours.

The entire program is designed to get you from confusion to clarity fast—so you can stop overthinking and start moving forward.

Each lesson is straight to the point, and the workbook gives you actionable exercises to speed up your recovery.

But I encourage you to take your time, complete the actions steps, and reflect on each lesson. Most of our students get best results by completing one lesson a day for a week.

I priced this program to be accessible to damn near anyone who needs it––while costing just enough to encourage you to take action (because when you pay, you pay attention).

That said, I know that poverty and income inequality are very real things.

I know first hand what it’s like to wonder how you’re going to afford your next meal––let alone educational content to help improve your life.

So, if you TRULY cannot afford The Closure Formula––due to living in a developing country or real poverty––please reach out to support@manevolved.co to learn more about our scholarship options.

Please only apply if you can’t afford the program due to income inequality or poverty (“I’d have to cancel my Netflix subscription!” doesn’t count).

Scholarships are reviewed on a case-by-case basis by our Director of Customer support to ensure fairness for all customers.

First of all –– rude.

Second –– I get it.

You don’t know me. I don’t know you. And you have no way of knowing if I can actually help you.

Which is why I want to take all of the risk out of your decision with our 100% “Do the Work Guarantee.”

I’m so confident in the value of this course and know that if you apply the strategies taught throughout, you’ll get the results promised on this page that I’m willing to put my money where my mouth is and offer a full refund if you don’t.

That said, YOU have to do the work to understand and apply the concepts we teach.

We require 100% of the course to be completed within 14 days of purchase to qualify for a full refund (FYI: our system automatically tracks your course completion).

So if you’re planning on buying the course, skimming through a few videos, and then asking for a refund when you don’t magically feel better overnight, please don’t enroll (and don’t be upset when we enforce this policy).

DISCLAIMERS:

  1. This program is not designed to diagnose or treat any physical or mental health conditions.

    Like I said, I’m not a doctor, psychiatrist, or therapist. 

    The contents of this program are for educational purposes only and if you’re struggling with severe mental health challenges in the wake of your breakup, this program is not a substitution for professional help.

  2. Client results vary and will depend on your coachability, willingness to take action, and unique circumstances. ManEvolved LLC does not guarantee any specific outcomes.

Research & References:

  1. The principles and practices taught inside of The Closure Formula are based on (but not limited to) research aggregated from the following sources. 

  2. Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (1987). Romantic Love Conceptualized as an Attachment Process. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52(3), 511–524. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.52.3.511


  3. Feeney, B. C., & Collins, N. L. (2015). A New Look at Social Support: A Theoretical Perspective on Thriving Through Relationships. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 19(2), 113–147. https://doi.org/10.1177/1088868314544222


  4. Lewandowski, G. W. (2020). Top 5 Classic Studies in the Psychology of Attraction. Science of Relationships. Retrieved from https://www.garylewandowski.com/post/top-5-classic-studies-in-the-psychology-of-attraction


  5. Eastwick, P. W., & Finkel, E. J. (2008). The Attachment System in Romantic Relationships: Evidence that Activation of the Parental Care System Inhibits Romantic Passion. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 34(2), 189–202. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167207310024


  6. Fisher, H. (2004). Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. New York: Henry Holt and Co.


  7. Walster, E., Aronson, V., Abrahams, D., & Rottmann, L. (1966). The Importance of Physical Attractiveness in Dating Behavior. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 4(5), 508–516. https://doi.org/10.1037/h0021188


  8. Rusbult, C. E., Martz, J. M., & Agnew, C. R. (1998). The Investment Model of Commitment Processes. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 15(5), 667–686. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407598155003


  9. Bowlby, J. (1988). A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human Development. New York: Basic Books.


  10. Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Three Rivers Press.


  11. Sprecher, S., & Regan, P. C. (2002). Liking Some Things (and People) More than Others: Examining Patterns of Attraction. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 82(6), 1075–1092. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.82.6.1075